Honestly, is it ever a good time to do or not do something? I don’t know! I am the queen of procrastination. I avoid things. I do not act upon situations. I overreact and say the wrong things at the wrong time. I am a mess! And every one of us in a way is, right? There are a few people who get everything right. They follow the rules, timetables, and pretty much are perfect. But for people like us, perfection is a far candy! I avoid doing a lot of things waiting for the right time do it. The perfect moment. The perfect place. Well, reality check; there is no such thing as the perfect time! It is always now or never. Well except when you have to take your tablets at the prescribed time!
Have you ever bought something that looked absolutely perfect on the clothing aisle but is actually a size smaller and then you have that stupid thought bubble in your head saying, “Buy it! You are anyway going to join the gym and then you can wear it!”? You have, haven’t you? Let’s have a reality check again. That’s never going to happen! So can we just stop fooling ourselves? Just buy what fits you at this moment and then buy new clothes when you actually lose weight! But that doesn’t mean you should deprive yourselves from looking good and feeling confident. I really
hate dislike people when they say they will buy nice clothes and dress up after they lose weight. My question is, “why?”! Why can’t you buy good clothes and look good now?!
I like you all struggle with body image issues. It doesn’t matter you are fat or thin, short or tall. Each one of us is insecure about our bodies. I have low self-esteem, I feel insecure, lose confidence a lot of times. I get intimidated easily. But have I learnt to cope-up with it? Yes! I do breakdowns every now and then. But, I can very confidently say that I have learnt to rise above all my insecurities and be confident. There is one thing that helped me boost my confidence. DRESSING UP!
Yes! Not many people realise the power of dressing up. You don’t know the amount of confidence dressing up well gives you. The moment you realise you are wearing something good and you are looking good, there is a change in your posture, your attitude, your behaviour. You look and sound more confident. Lately, I realised that the day I am comfortable in my clothes, I am the most confident. I remember the time when I used to wear something just because it was trendy. It might have looked good on someone else, but it looked like trash on me, because I wasn’t comfortable in it.
Dress up for your body and wear what suits you. Don’t be lazy and give yourself stupid excuses not to dress up. By dressing up I don’t mean you have be prim and proper all the time. I simply mean that you should feel happy about what you are wearing. You are wearing a simple t-shirt and jeans? Wear a nice lipstick or add a simple accessory to take the outfit up a notch. It’s that simple! You are good enough now to wear whatever you like. Don’t wait for the perfect weight, height or a time to look good. I am in no way preaching or saying that you shouldn’t tare about your body or should stop working towards it. All I am saying is that be comfortable in your skin. Look good NOW and work towards your goal to look better!
A FEW TIPS TO KEEP IN MIND:
- Kimono is a very versatile coverup and can be paired with multiple outfits. Wear it with shorts to give a casual look.
- If you have a curvy body like mine i.e, if your waist is the best part of your body, make belts your best friends! I cinch my waist in almost every outfit I wear.
- Wear solid colours inside. It is the best way to camouflage those extra kilos!
- Swap the heels with comfortable thing sandals and swap the neckpiece with a simple long chain to look minimalist.
- And as I always say, rock the outfit with oodles of confidence and a big smile!
Strut in confidence with your heads held high and don’t forget to flip your hair!
If you found this post helpful and relate to it, please do let me know and share your views with me. If you want any help with regards to your body, how to wear what and about anything at all, please do write to me. I will definitely help you. You can email me at firstname.lastname@example.org